Why is that people is being so judgment these days? Who gave you the right to criticize older mother who try to have babies? It is not your place to make a quick to judge on someone else. Leave that to GOD. He have the most power to do that. And it is not your life so worry about your life. I guess it is human's nature to judge other people but not in my nature. It's all about what you want in life & what you can afford. I don't think anyone but God has any right to say older woman cannot or can have babies. If God chose you to have this baby at this age, so be it and GO FOR IT. Don't let anyone tell you different. Some people aren't ready to have baby until in their 30s or 40s and it is really none of their or my business. "My quote: Don't judge other so they won't judge you." I know that people around you and their opinion can affect your life but you are giving your two cents is so damn judgment. All you can do is just be there to support her no matter what. However, Don't let that get to you. If you want to have babies at that age, GO FOR IT. What is wrong of having babies in their early & late 40's? We all know all the risk of having babies at that age but age shouldn't matter. I am definitely not encourage all women to get pregnancy at 50 nor 60. Just saying.
Don't forget that Celebrities in their 40's had their babies and gave healthy babies but some may have issue. Celebrities can afford to have infertility, donor eggs or whatever that may be. These days, there are more women becoming pregnant in their 40's and beyond. So many people wonder, how old is too old to have a baby? There is no perfect simple answer for that. I guess age is just a number to have babies. No one is perfect but GOD.
I really didn't feel ready to have children when I was in my 20's. I was so much into school work, having so much fun, living my life to the fullest and additionally, there was no man in my life at that time. All of my good friend had their babies in their 20's and waiting for me to have my own. I have received a couple of statement that they wish they could have waited because they was so jealousy that I was having so much fun in my 20's. There is no reason to be jealousy. I think having children is more fun and precious. I guess I am trying to do better than my mother. My mother had my sisters when she was 15,years old, she had me when she was 20 and 25 years old. I have seen her struggle and struggle to raised all three of us without our father in our life. I have no problem of being a mother at older age. I think it is the right time for me to start my own life at this moment because I am so ready to settle my life with someone. I used to dream of having my own kids when I was 25 years old but that dream of mine FAILED. I guess I am not going to dream so much to make it happen. I am in love with this dude I am with. We are working on having babies when the time is right. I do not regret of waiting to have baby in my 30's. If I can't baby now, I will adopt one but continue to try to have baby.
There is other thing that made me realize something very important in my life. I wouldn't let it bother me so much. The major concern is that my babies might not have a chance to see their grandma. Why is the rush to get pregnant now and what if getting pregnancy FAILED? Well, People made a choice to have that babies at that age. . See, I don't have a Grandma nor great grandma cuz they died when I am very young. Should I rush to get pregnant now? The answer is no but I know my mother might not live long enough. God forgive me for saying that. I know I can't be mad at God for taking my family away. God can't keep everybody so someone gotta go. So getting pregnant at that age have a lot to think about. It will be hard on me n my future children if she ain't here but I am going try the best to make it through. . God will be w me all the WAY. I pray that I will get to live longer to see my grandbaby.. 5 or more kids for me. As long I make scrapbook of my whole families which I need to do it NOW.
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